愛情世界從沒有一條程式讓我們去遵循，「如何達到成功？但到底何謂成功？」；「如何可以得到他/她的愛？但到底自己又有多愛他/她？」；「如何可以地久天長？但你又能確保自己可以愛他/她到地老嗎?」。
愛情世界裏從來都無分成功、失敗，有些人會視失戀為自己的失敗，自己是這段關係中的失敗者，到底中途離場的是否就代表是失敗？？由彼此相識那天開始，兩者之間每天都會出現無數問題，有無數方面均要取得平衡和協調，就如飲食口味，可能一個愛濃、一個愛清淡；作息的時間…一個早睡早起、一個誓要做夜鬼；一個愛靜、一個愛動；一個愛沉默、一個則永遠滔滔不絕…
每一個人都是一個個體，各有著不同的性格和習慣，當初所吸引彼此的…很可能在最後會變成是無法協調，我們可以做的就只有努力去取得共同的平衡點，盡力過後能否修成正果，都已經不再重要。
在一次旅程完結之後，心裏面都會有絲絲難以言喻的不捨和難過，正如當一段感情結束時，心裏有所悲傷和心痛亦是必然，的確，這份情讓你傷心、令你流淚，但…在你的思憶中…定必同時存著這份情的美好，這個人曾經是你生命中最愛的一個，或許今天要別離，但這並不代表是誰人做得不夠好，只是緣份已走。
過去的這段情，就讓它存在我們的回憶之中，不論當中是甜是苦，它都會是我們生命、成長中的一段歷歷，縱然今天曾為失去的茫然和神傷，但我相信他朝回想種種，你只會輕輕一笑，心中或會想起一句話「記得當時年紀小」。
突然想起了一首歌，『Aren't you glad』…細味令人心領神會的歌語，曾經和我共渡無數時刻的你…曾經教我愛得心痛的你…今天…的你…快樂嗎??
Aren't you glad you didn't stay with me,
Bohemian life and instability.
You went off to university.
And you took your love away from me.
Endless nights, lovers, friends and fun,
Big-City lights, your new life had begun.
And as the world turns on and on,
Love is lost and love is won,
laughed and cried when we were young.
You went your own way, I survived.
And did you ever see everything inside of me?
So now you live your life in luxury,
Double glazing, turbo washing machine.
And your fiance is boring as hell,
You never laugh, you're both professional.
You know that film, that I'd started to write?
It's a box-office smash,
I'm on the next flight to get my award on TV tonight,
Looking back, I think I've done alright.
Oh, aren't you glad you didn't stay.
Oh, aren't you glad you didn't stay with me?
Oh, aren't you glad you didn't stay with me?
You didn't want my love.
So aren't you glad, aren't you glad, aren't you glad.
Aren't you glad, aren't you glad.
Aren't you glad, aren't you glad.
